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Dying Matters - So Why Are Brits Too Uncomfortable To Talk About It?

This year’s Dying Matters Awareness Week (16-22 May) has revealed that the subject of death and dying remains a taboo subject amongst Brits.
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This year's Dying Matters Awareness Week (16-22 May) reveals that although the majority of people think that talking about death is less of a taboo than it was 20 years ago, two thirds of Brits think that people in the UK are not comfortable discussing dying and death. Someone in Britain dies every minute, yet death remains a taboo subject.

More people are scared of dying in pain (83%) than of being told they are dying (67%), dying alone (62%) or dying in hospital (59%). Despite the economic downturn more people are scared of dying than of going bankrupt (41%) or losing their job (38%). More than half of people agree that if we felt more comfortable talking about dying and death, people would be less likely to die alone. The majority of people (around 70%) would prefer to die at home, but around 60% die in hospital – in many cases unnecessarily.

Most people have not discussed key issues around dying and death with their parents, partner or close friends. Few people have discussed with their partner the type of funeral they want (33%), whether they have a will (33%) where they would like to die (16%) or the type of care and support they would want at the end of their lives (18%). Only 11% of people had discussed where they would like to die with their parents. Yet it is clearly an important decision, with 78% of people thinking it is part of a health professional’s job to talk about where someone would like to be cared for when dying and how they would like to die.

. Introduction:

This year’s Dying Matters Awareness Week (16-22 May) has revealed that the subject of death and dying is not one that many Brits feel comfortable discussing. Most Brits have not discussed key issues around dying with their loved ones, even though many people are scared of dying alone or dying in hospital. Decisions such as where you would like to die, the type of funeral you would like and the type of care and support you would like at the end of your life are extremely important, not only for you but for those around you – yet it seems that Brits are just too uncomfortable to discuss them.

So why is death and dying such an uncomfortable topic?

Joining us to discuss this further is Eve Richardson, Chief Executive of the National Council for Palliative Care and the Dying Matters Coalition.

. Suggested Questions:

So what are the attitudes towards death and dying in our area?

What’s the theme of this year’s Dying Matters Awareness Week and what is going on throughout the week?

Why are we so uncomfortable discussing dying and death?

Why do people fear death so much?

Is it so important to talk about our wishes with regards to our death?

What advice have you got for anyone who wants to plan for end of life care or their death or the death of a loved one?

Where can our listeners find out more information?